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Street vendors are an integral part of city life. People have easy access to most household goods at cheap prices. The vendors, on the other hand, are able to earn a living without having to worry about overhead costs like exorbitant rent and utilities. But it’s no easy job, say vendors ApEx spoke to. There are many challenges because of which they are always troubled. Here they share their worries and hopes.

Binuta Magar, 17

As a college student, I work as a vendor in hopes of earning some money to support my studies and also get some pocket money. I have to work as my family’s financial situation isn’t that great. I actually wanted to go abroad to study but I’m unable to do so.  I wish the government would do something to help the poor—perhaps give them some work opportunities or if not, at least look into how they can make the environment better for them to do their own thing with dignity. The inflation is so high that vendors like me have to make do with the bare minimum.   

Prakash Subedi, 35

My source of income comes from selling vegetables from a cart. I’ve been doing that for the past two years. I make enough money from this to support my family but it’s just the basics. There isn’t much left for anything else. It’s not easy. As vendors, we have to brave the weather and don’t have the luxury to say we won’t go out to work today because it’s raining or it’s too hot. Worse, the local authorities and the police often chase us away, hampering our business. I live in constant threat that the police will take my cart away and I won’t be able to earn a living.

Amar Raj Bista, 51

I have been working in the Pepsicola area since 2022. I was working in Kalanki before this. Right now, the financial situation is so dire. I can’t afford to rent a space. The best I could do was build a little shed to sell garments. I have to pay the landowner and something I don’t have enough money left. I feel trapped and I’m unable to change things. My family suffers too because we have to make do with what we have. I hope the government wakes up and decides to do something to make work easy and respectful for us.

The British Embassy in Kathmandu organized a pre-departure event on Tuesday at the residence of UK Ambassador Rob Fenn for this year’s cohort of Chevening Scholars. Thirteen Nepali students will be heading to the UK to pursue one-year master’s degrees under the prestigious Chevening Scholarship program.

Speaking at the event, Ambassador Fenn expressed his admiration for the scholars, stating, “Chevening Scholars represent some of Nepal’s finest, and the UK is proud to support them in building important links, acting as ambassadors between our countries. It is also a delight to see so many of our alumni, who all return to Nepal, driving change here with the skills, knowledge, and friendships built from their time at British Universities.”

The scholars will be pursuing a wide range of subjects, including International Human Rights Law, Aviation Digital Technology, Global Health Policy, and Children, Youth & International Development.

First introduced in Nepal in 1983, the Chevening program has since supported 262 Nepali scholars, including this year’s batch. Notable alumni from the program have made significant contributions in fields such as politics, academia, diplomacy, and business. This year’s group will continue this legacy, adding to the global network of over 50,000 Chevening alumni.

The Chevening Scholarship, named after the British Foreign Secretary’s official residence, enables students from around the world to study for one year in the UK before returning to contribute to their home countries.

As ‘Children’s Day’ is around the corner, we thought we would ask some parents about navigating the challenges of raising children, their concerns, and how they are ensuring their child grows up in the best possible environment.

Aayush Shakya, 29

As a first-time parent, I must admit that I’m a little lost. With my knowledge of child psychology, I try to understand him when he throws tantrums. But I worry about him all the time. I don’t know what he is going through or what he wants. I don’t know if he’s feeling unwell or if he wants food. I’m pretty clueless most of the time.  

It’s true that a child’s upbringing has an impact on his/her mental health as well. S/he will grow up to be a good person if s/he is raised in a happy, understanding, and positive environment. I guess that’s a lot of pressure on the parents. I want to make sure my child gets a lot of love, care, and emotional support so that he becomes a well-grounded person in the future.

Usha Tamang, 38

Children are affected by their environment so every parent must make sure it’s conducive for a child’s growth. It’s the parent’s responsibility to ensure the child grows up well. Since I don’t know much about child psychology, I make it a point to be careful about how I deal with him. I’m concerned about his mental health since there can be so many triggers. Sometimes, we mistakenly raise our voices and my child feels bad. I fear this might have a negative impact in the long term though he doesn’t seem to be affected by it at the moment. However, I’m mindful of the fact that I must be cautious about my words and actions around him.   

Harsha Bahadur Shrestha, 60

Parents are responsible for their children and, I feel, it’s a lifelong responsibility. We must guide them in a way that promotes critical thinking, social adaptability, and self-awareness. I think children learn a lot by looking at their peers, more so now than ever before so every parent must monitor their children’s circle when they are growing up. As for myself, I think I have done a fairly decent job in raising my children and teaching them good values. I think I have managed to steer them in the right direction, emphasizing on the need to make good decisions when picking friends and careers, as well as being professional without ever harming others.

Teej is the third day after the new moon that signifies the arrival of monsoon according to the Hindu calendar. Traditionally, it’s a day when married women pray for the long lives of their husbands. Today, it’s celebrated with much aplomb, with parties starting almost a month before Teej. ApEx spoke to some women to find out how they feel about the way the festival is being celebrated these days.

Sanjita Shakya, 21

I didn’t know about Teej until recently when I got to listen to some music on it and learned what it was all about. Newars don’t celebrate teej. But I like the concept of it now that I know about it. Families get together on this day and find a safe space to express their emotions. It’s quite lovely to think about. What I don’t like is that the celebrations are becoming commercial and people are using it as an excuse to party and do all kinds of random things. I don’t think we should take a serious festival so lightly.

Urmila Bhattarai Baral, 40

It’s an important celebration in our culture. Earlier, it used to be a day for women to get together and talk about their feelings and such. Now people have taken it to another level. There are parties being organized in banquets and hotels and people are drinking and dancing. It’s becoming a rather strange kind of culture. I believe we have to go back to our roots and enjoy it the way it was meant to be—as a religious festival where women came together, danced, and sang religious songs.

Samita Shrestha, 44

It’s one of the biggest festivals for Hindus. Earlier, the Newar community didn’t celebrate Teej but now there are many people who do. There’s a huge difference between how Teej used to be celebrated years ago and how it’s celebrated today. It was once a festival of feasting followed by fasting. Now, it’s become a reason for endless parties. Nevertheless, I think women should enjoy this festival as a day when they can forget all their worries, get together with their loved ones or simply be by themselves.

Sumitra Tamang, 63

I believe Teej is one of the greatest festivals in our culture. I love it that women come together to celebrate. In our village, we have lots of fun during Teej. Women come together and sing and dance. It’s a really vibrant atmosphere. I like how festive it feels and it makes me really happy.

Father’s Day is a joyous moment for both fathers and children alike. For children, it’s a day to give thanks to their dads for all they have done for them. For fathers, it’s when they get to take a moment to bless their children in return. ApEx spoke to three fathers to find out what this day means to them, what being a father entails, and their deepest wishes for their children.

Sudip Bolakhe, 23

As a young father, I faced numerous challenges. Working as a conductor and laborer, I struggled financially and was often unable to afford clothes and medicines for my child. It’s something I will never forget. The day my son was born was the happiest day of my life. My parents started talking to me nicely and I felt loved once again. I want my son to study hard and build a successful future for himself. I don’t want him to fall into bad company. Rather, I wish for him to always be able to tell the difference between good and bad. 

Rajiv Rakyan, 66

Being a father is a huge responsibility. You have to take care of your child till they become adults and even then, you can’t stop worrying. As a father, it’s my responsibility to teach my children everything they need to know—the ways of the world and how to find their footing in it. I want to ensure my sons become good people. I want them to be confident and successful. My father isn’t around anymore and I miss him but I take solace in the fact that my sons are there to celebrate Father’s Day with me.

Makhan Lal Lohala, 91

I have four daughters and I’m happy to say that I have done everything I could for them. All of them are married and have families of their own. They are doing well and I’m proud of them. But I want them to remember to be humble, to treat everybody with kindness, make their families happy, and be friends with everyone around them. I wish no one ever speaks ill of them and that they have no enemies. It’s my deepest wish for them. In the Newar community, special events are given a lot of importance. It brings us together, making us feel special and happy. So, I’m looking forward to Father’s Day.

Rajan Thapa is the proprietor of Diamond Hill Resort, which is situated in Panauti, in the midst of nature. His grandparents, who raised him, instilled in him an appreciation for hard work and dedication and he credits that for all the successes in life.

Thapa was born in 1970 in Kavre. He wanted to continue his studies after school but due to a financial crisis in his family he couldn’t do so. However, he passed the Public Service Commission exam as a non-gazetted second-class officer. He then worked in Pokhara and Kapilvastu for a few years. He used to travel a lot and got into a lot of accidents which eventually compelled him to leave the job.

After that, he got a chance to work with German-Austrian businessperson, Walter Schweiger. Schweiger had a hotel inside the Boudha Stupa premises. Schweiger encouraged him to learn German and pursue a bachelor’s degree in Food and Beverage. Thapa was then further trained and given the role of the food and beverage manager at Schweiger’s hotel.

“I admired Schweiger a lot. He used to treat me like a business partner and sometimes like a family member too,” says Thapa. “But I felt he used to dominate me in front of the other workers. What I also didn’t like was that there used to be a sign at the entrance of his hotel saying Nepalis weren’t allowed inside. Schweiger did that as he used to think Nepalis were uncivilized and not of high class. Some royals, however, were allowed in the hotel.”

But Schweiger sent him to Germany for training and Thapa is still grateful for that as he got a chance to learn about wood carving and design during that trip. He returned from Germany in 1997 but circumstances led to him resigning from his managerial post at Schweiger’s hotel. “It was a conflict of working styles, especially with his wife,” he says.

He then joined an American franchise company, Sterling Catering, whose manager was John Matthew. With Matthew’s team he got a chance to visit Qatar in 1999 and slowly started traveling to places like UAE, Bahrain etc. “Whenever I think of those days, I thank Matthew for trusting me and taking me to different places around the world with his team. He also made me the operations manager of four five-star hotels which had over 2000 workers,” says Thapa.

However, there too, Thapa faced the same issue. A part-time French chef was paid more than him. “I realized that Nepalis were dominated everywhere and I decided that I wouldn’t work for any foreign company from then on.” After he returned to Nepal, he considered doing something in the hospitality business. However, the environment wasn’t favorable for launching a new hospitality venture. As he had the know-how of wood carving and design, he decided to do something with those skills.

After a short stint with a wood-carving business, he turned his focus to hospitality once again. He built the Stupa Hotel and Café Dew Drops in Boudha and let one of his friends run the café. In 2012, he constructed Balthali Mountain Resort which is now run by his relative. In 2020, he started working on the Diamond Hill Resort project.  

The construction of the hotel started during the first phase of the Covid-19 lockdowns. The pandemic led to many difficulties in sourcing materials and made construction difficult. However, despite numerous hurdles, the hotel began operations in 2022.

Today, the resort focuses on meditation classes and free yoga sessions as the environment there is peaceful and beautiful.  Thapa says that Diamond Hill Resort is slightly on the pricier side but tourists love the resort and are always recommending it to their family and friends. “It’s so popular that we have already started taking bookings for 2025 and 2026,” says Thapa.

Thapa adds that the focus of the resort is to provide excellent services. Since it’s situated in a beautiful area, they have managed to use the location to their advantage and promote the hotel. “You can see the mountain ranges as well as many migratory birds from up there. You will also get great views of the sunrise and sunset, making for stunning photo backdrops,” he says.

Thapa says he has been lucky that the hotel has been popular even in the off seasons. They haven’t had a dry spell yet, he says. People from the community say that the place has been doing well business wise ever since the resort opened its doors. Thapa has encouraged his family and friends to start restaurants and other businesses near the resort and even those have been growing steadily, he says.

“I was born there and I wanted to do something special. I wanted the place to flourish and make a difference in the community. So, I choose to put in all my efforts, skills, hard work and experience that I have gathered from many countries and utilize it in my own motherland,” says Thapa.

Diamond Hill Resort has only had a soft opening till date. Before the grand opening, Thapa has plans to add a sauna and build a swimming pool as well. He wants the hotel to be unlike any other five-star hotel in the country. Thapa believes Nepalis can dream big and use their skills to achieve their dreams rather than relying on others to make their wishes come true. “All we need is the will to succeed in life, free from negative or harmful thoughts,” he says.

Being a mom is a full-time job. Raising children is perhaps the hardest thing to do, perhaps even more difficult than giving birth to them. You are constantly on your toes and there are a zillion things to handle. If you happen to be a mother who has a job, it gets even worse. Juggling personal and professional responsibilities and staying on top of them is no easy feat. But mothers make it seem so effortless. However, that doesn’t mean they don’t feel the pressure. ApEx spoke to three working mothers to find out how they deal with it.

Sarita Shrestha, 32

As a working mom, I’m happy about the support that my family has given me. It gives me confidence and the ability to go about my work without worrying about my child. I have seen my female colleagues resign after delivery. Pregnancy and childbirth take a physical and mental toll on the mother’s health and many women suffer from postpartum depression as well.

As a working mom, time management is the biggest challenge for me. You need to be able to balance work and personal life. You have to take care of yourself and give time to your children. It’s not easy to be in the right frame of mind and on top of things and it’s something working moms struggle with all the time.

Arani Shakya, 32

Being a working mom, one of the challenging aspects is scheduling my day-to-day activities. I often find myself rescheduling things I have signed up for because there are personal responsibilities to handle. I don’t get to spend much time with my child and I fear I’m missing many milestones that would make for wonderful memories later on. I feel terrible. It’s almost like I live with constant guilt. Worse, some people think as a working mother I’m not giving my child enough attention. But working moms have a lot to juggle. We rarely have time for ourselves and our mental health.

Sangita Ramjali Shrestha, 36

I have two children and I believe that all working moms are super women. There’s just so much to do and you can’t afford to let things slide. You must be at the top of your game, both personally and professionally. The concept of a working mom is lovely but I constantly find myself going through a rollercoaster of conflicting emotions. Raising a child can be difficult if you don’t have the support of your family. I live in a joint family so things are easier for me. There’s always someone to take care of my children when I’m inundated with work. Personally, being a working mom takes a toll on me when my children are ill and I find myself unable to take time off from work. It’s when I feel at my lowest.

The protests in Bangladesh have made daily life there challenging and unsafe. Many Nepalis returned home while others chose to stay back because of their circumstances. Shreya Shrestha from ApEx spoke to three undergraduate students in Bangladesh about what is going on in their minds as they study and work in a place where their safety isn’t guaranteed.

Karishma Thapa, 23

At the Asian University for Women in Bangladesh where I study, the situation is quite volatile. Students are feeling several kinds of emotions. They are navigating academic challenges and political uncertainty. We’ve been engaging in various activities to maintain our well-being, such as extracurricular activities, peer support groups, and recreational events.

The university administration is also making efforts to provide the necessary resources and support to ensure that we can continue our education in a safe and conducive environment. Despite the challenges, there’s an underlying sense of hope and solidarity that keeps us going. The Nepal government should provide support to Nepali students, including safety during crises, easing educational expenses, advocating for better degree recognition, and addressing specific concerns faced by Nepali students in Bangladesh.

Khushranjan Mahato, 24

The situation in Sirajganj got out of hand when students set fire to the homes of former and current MPs. People threatened and targeted Hindus on this particular day. There were many fatalities. Right now, things are under control because Dr. Muhammad Yunus is the leader of the interim administration. As a Nepali, I was a little worried about staying here because of the incident. According to the embassy, 400 Nepalis are here in Bangladesh and no one has been targeted or threatened. So, I feel lucky that we are safe here. But we were expecting support from the Nepali embassy. We thought they would facilitate our return to Nepal. We feel helpless.

Dr Aabid Dewan, 25

Compared to the last few weeks, the situation is getting better. Students are really happy right now and they are hopeful of a better future. I can see that people are relieved and happy. Since the very first day of the protests, I didn’t face any kind of difficulties or threat from any political parties or anyone else. I was on my regular medical duties. I don’t really have that many expectations from our government. As a medical student here in Bangladesh, we face a lot of difficulties and all I want is for the Nepal government to reach out to us so these problems and issues can be solved.