The challenges of raising children
Family has long been regarded as the cornerstone of society, shaping people’s values, aspirations, and resilience. Today, single-parent households and nuclear families represent two prominent structures, each with its unique challenges, dynamics, and strengths. Here, ApEx spoke to three parents about the challenges of raising children, whether alone or together.
Suraj Lama, 34
I believe when two people are raising a child it fosters emotional development and resilience through balanced responsibilities. In my case, I provide security and guidance to my child and my wife cares and nurtures. We work as a team and raising our child is a collaborative effort. When both parents are present, the child doesn’t have to deal with unnecessary social biases as this structure is accepted as ‘normal’. I think the impact is gentler on children. With single parents, it might also sometimes be difficult to give the same level of attention because of time and financial constraints. I’m not saying single parents can’t raise children. Of course, they can and they might even do a better job than a couple but it can definitely be taxing. There can be unnecessary stress for both parent and child.
Ambika Bhandari Subedi, 36
I think raising a child in a two-parent household is generally easier and more effective than in a single-parent setup. A two-parent family provides emotional balance, with both parents contributing to the child’s development. In single-parent families, the absence of one parent can lead to feelings of loneliness, anger, or depression, as the child may lack exposure to a cooperative family dynamic. Social biases can further complicate matters, with children from single-parent families often facing stigma or judgment. Financial and caregiving challenges are also more significant for single parents as they must manage everything alone. In contrast, shared responsibilities in two-parent households create stability, offering better opportunities for the child’s education and future.
Sita Laxmi Twayana, 46
I have lived in Bhaktapur all my life and I have been raising my child alone. It’s an incredibly challenging journey. Managing everything—financially and socially—on my own has been tough, especially during times of scarcity. It was difficult for my child too, but I prioritized their education, ensuring they received the best I could provide, even in unfavorable circumstances. Today, they are excelling academically and pursuing dreams that align with my aspirations for them. I have instilled strong norms and values, and I believe they will achieve great things in life. However, the scorn and criticism I faced as a single parent were hurtful and it still pains me when I think of it. I hope my child and others in similar situations never have to endure such prejudice.
Susan Sapkota: A young activist determined to make a difference
Susan Sapkota, an 18-year-old environmentalist and social advocate, has already made a significant impact through his work in environmental sustainability, sexual and reproductive health, menstrual hygiene, and mental health. Shaped by his formative experiences, Sapkota attributes his current identity to the values and lessons instilled in him during his upbringing.
Sapkota grew up in Surkhet, Birendranagar, in mid-west Nepal. He recalls a childhood marked by significant transitions, such as moving to a new place where he found himself surrounded by adults. This early isolation from people his age led him to develop close bonds with the elders. Solitude also allowed him to mature quickly and become a leader at a young age.
From his early days in school, Sapkota exhibited natural leadership qualities. He was often appointed as a monitor or class captain by his teachers. Teachers joked about his potential political future. They said that he would one day be the prime minister of Nepal but politics never intrigued him. Instead, Sapkota’s interests gravitated toward social causes and making a difference in the world.
Sapkota comes from a modest yet supportive family. His mother, a teacher, and father, a former professional driver turned firefighter, instilled in him values of hard work, empathy, and social responsibility. While they were initially concerned about his education and the unconventional nature of his pursuits, they soon recognized his deep passion for the causes he was championing.
Currently, Sapkota is pursuing bachelors in economics and law at Kathmandu University. He says he wants to be self-sufficient and knowledgeable about legal matters, ensuring that as a campaigner, he won’t have to rely on others for legal advice. He has always been inspired by figures like Barack Obama and Nelson Mandela, whose backgrounds in economics and law aligned with his own academic and career goals.
Sapkota’s journey as a campaigner began during school, when he transitioned from a community school to Usha Bal Batika School, where his mother taught. Here, he was influenced by many visiting lecturers, including Dr Nawaraj KC, a pediatrician who introduced him to the concept of climate change and environmental responsibility. It was during this period that Sapkota began to truly internalize the importance of protecting the environment for future generations.
One of his earliest and most impactful campaigns, ‘Go Green Go Clean,’ was initiated with the guidance of Dr KC. The campaign aimed to raise awareness among students about environmental issues, focusing on waste management and the importance of preserving nature. Sapkota led the student club at school, handling the administrative and funding aspects of the campaign. In six months, they successfully reached all the schools in the area, setting the foundation for his future work in social activism.
Waste management remains one of Sapkota’s proudest accomplishments. He recalls how the campaign transformed the waste management practices in Birendranagar, with communities becoming more conscious about cleanliness and proper disposal. “It was a long journey,” he says, “but we made significant progress.”
Beyond environmental activism, Sapkota expanded his efforts to address sexual and reproductive health and rights (SRHR). Visiting rural areas like Mugu, Kalikot, and Jajarkot, he educated young people, especially women, about menstrual hygiene and sexual health. These campaigns were driven by his observation of gender disparities, with girls facing cultural restrictions that limited their opportunities.
However, Sapkota faced numerous cultural and societal barriers, particularly related to practices like chaupadi pratha (a tradition of keeping menstruating women in isolation, often in huts). One of the key challenges he encountered was the mindset of the communities he worked with. Despite the educational efforts, convincing people to put an end to long-standing practices proved difficult. However, Sapkota and his team used strategic approaches, including speaking to elderly people and engaging with local leaders, to bring about change.
A particularly memorable achievement from the SRHR campaign was the workshop Sapkota and his friend conducted in Kalikot, where they taught women how to make their own sanitary pads. “It’s a skill they continue to use, and many women are now making a living through it,” he says.
The work, he says, doesn’t come without challenges including resistance from conservative communities, misunderstandings about the campaigns, and the difficulties of managing multiple roles in his personal life. Despite these setbacks, he remains steadfast, viewing each challenge as a learning opportunity rather than a roadblock. “The challenges have been learning opportunities,” he says.
He acknowledges that much of his personal growth has come from the support and mentorship of key individuals in his life. He credits his parents, mentors like Dr KC, and his supportive friends for shaping his leadership journey.
Sapkota’s vision extends beyond Nepal. Looking ahead, he envisions himself continuing to lead campaigns and initiatives that make a positive impact on society. “I want people to recognize me as a good leader or a campaigner,” he says reflecting on his deep commitment to creating lasting social change.
Sapkota’s recent trip to South Africa, where he worked with The Green Connection to protect marine life, further expanded his understanding of global environmental issues. “It was a huge learning experience,” he says, “and it reinforced my belief in the power of collective action.”
His efforts to promote a ‘green university’ initiative in Nepal is aimed at reducing waste and promoting sustainability in schools and colleges. Having visited over 50 districts for his campaigns, Sapkota remains driven by the belief that passion and teamwork can overcome any obstacle.
Sapkota firmly believes if you do something with passion and determination, then nothing can stop you from reaching your goal. His message to aspiring campaigners is this: “It’s all about teamwork and setting a clear goal.”
How can the media thrive?
Nirmala Sharma has been elected as the President of the Federation of Nepali Journalists (FNJ). Securing 4,282 votes, she became the first woman to lead the media organization. This has revamped the organizations’ profile as well as sparked hope among journalists that the FNJ will work for a prosperous media landscape in Nepal. ApEx talked to three young journalists from different media houses about their concerns and expectations.
Sanskriti Pokharel, 20, The Kathmandu Post
I believe in press freedom and I expect FNJ to focus on engaging with local journalists and communities to address the specific challenges they face in remote and conflict-affected areas. FNJ should also provide safety training to journalists as that can ensure fearless reporting. FNJ could establish mentorship programs pairing experienced journalists with young journalists to foster knowledge sharing. As someone young navigating this field, I also see immense value in FNJ leveraging partnerships with media houses and academic institutions to provide scholarships, internships, and global exposure. I feel that a diverse media landscape leads to richer, more inclusive storytelling. Acknowledging and highlighting the contributions of journalists from diverse backgrounds and age can inspire others and shift perceptions about who can succeed in the field.
Sara Pahari, 22, myRepublica
FNJ should prioritize creating a secure environment for journalists, especially for those reporting from conflict zones or covering sensitive issues. This includes advocating for stronger laws to protect press freedom, journalists’ rights and providing legal support for journalists facing threats. It’s also important to establish crisis response mechanisms to address immediate risks. It can also partner with media houses and international organizations to offer scholarships or fellowships for advanced learning. This would make a difference in enhancing skills and career growth. FNJ needs to be proactive in guiding journalists on adapting to new technologies while addressing issues like misinformation, plagiarism, and ethical dilemmas in digital reporting. I’d love to see FNJ push for more inclusive policies within media organizations, ensuring fair representation of women, young journalists, and those from marginalized communities. Promoting leadership opportunities and recognizing diverse voices can create a more equitable and innovative media sector.
Tenging Dolma Tamang, 24, MakaluKhabar
In Nepal, although there is press freedom, journalists are frequently threatened and assaulted. Many journalists feel unsafe because of the news they report. In most cases involving the safety of journalists, the FNJ seems to merely draw the attention of the concerned individuals or authorities. When no action is taken against those responsible, attacks on journalists continue. So, the FNJ must go beyond just drawing attention and take decisive action to uphold press freedom and protect journalists. I believe there is a lot of nepotism and favoritism, and journalism is often misused. FNJ must look into this and encourage and reward those who genuinely practice good journalism, rather than favoring those aligned with political ideologies. The FNJ should introduce programs aimed at building the capacity of these groups. They should reward journalists who highlight issues concerning youth, women, and marginalized communities.
Sabin Karki: Dancing his way to stardom
Sabin Karki, also known as Sabin Beest, is famous for his love for dance and artistic expression. His journey has been shaped by his passion for movement, creativity, and a deep desire to inspire. A dancer, choreographer, and filmmaker, Karki has paved his own path in the entertainment industry, constantly breaking barriers and pushing boundaries. His story is not just about mastering the art of dance but about embracing challenges, defying expectations, and ultimately finding success on his own terms.
Karki’s interest in dance began at an early age, when he was introduced to it through a school program. A group of students were participating in a dance event at their school. Karki, at the time, was not particularly skilled in dancing. When he took to the stage, his performance was less than graceful, and Karki felt humiliated. But it made him want to improve. When another opportunity came his way, he gave it his all. Karki was recognized as one of the best dancers in his school. This marked the beginning of his transformation.
He was clear that he didn’t want a traditional nine to five job. “The thought was a nightmare,” he says. The idea of working in a conventional office setting didn’t appeal to him. Instead, he wanted to explore the creative side of life and forge a career that allowed him to do what he loved. Karki started by creating cover videos, which allowed him to practice and showcase his talent.
However, the turning point came when he received his first significant offer, a chance to choreograph a song for the ‘Fantastic Wonderful’ song. Although the project didn’t work out as he had hoped, the opportunity helped him gain visibility and opened doors for future ventures.
‘Viral Vaidiyo’, a renowned figure in Nepal’s music and dance scene, approached Karki after parting ways with The Cartoonz Crew. This collaboration signaled the next phase of his career, where he began to solidify his place in the dance industry.
Karki sees dance as a form of expression that goes beyond physical movement—it has become a way of storytelling and connecting with others. He acknowledges the multiple roles he takes on in his work. In solo performances, he focuses on his personal practice, perfecting his craft independently.
However, when working in a group, coordination becomes crucial as each member brings his/her own challenges to the table. One of the most difficult aspects of his work is the pre-production phase, where the story for the performance must be created, and he must figure out how to direct the group effectively.
The dynamic of group dancing adds complexity, as he must not only ensure that the overall performance looks cohesive but also consider how to make the dance movements appear visually appealing. “While dancing in a group requires careful synchronization, directing involves a deeper level of thought about how to best frame and present the dance for maximum impact,” he says.
He has also developed a keen interest in filmmaking. This passion was fostered during the early days of the internet, when he became an ‘internet freak’ who constantly sought knowledge about technology and the digital world. Karki’s interest in technology and video creation led him to start his own production page, Beest Production.
Beest Production began as a simple project where he and his crew created videos and choreographies. Over time, however, it grew into a fully-fledged creative platform where he could explore his passion for both dance and filmmaking. The process of creating and directing music videos became a natural extension of his dance career, and Karki found himself merging his love for storytelling with his ability to choreograph.
For Karki, dance is more than just movement—it’s a form of communication. When creating music videos, storytelling is essential. While dance is the primary focus of the videos, he emphasizes the importance of weaving a narrative that resonates with the audience. “In a music video, there is a big importance of dance,” he says, “but the story also plays a crucial role.” This combination of dance and storytelling is what sets Karki’s work apart from others in the industry.
Karki also notes the importance of competition in the dance scene. He believes there should be more opportunities for dancers to compete and showcase their talents, as well as greater involvement from sponsors and corporate houses to support the industry. However, he acknowledges that the current state of the dance scene in Nepal is much better than before. He recalls a time when girls were not allowed to dance, and if they did, they were often labeled as ‘bar dancers.’ “We have also changed the perception of dancing,” he says.
His recently released music video Bhavya Rap was created with the intention of spreading good energy rather than delivering a deep, meaningful message. He says, “The lyrics were designed to focus on rhymes and rhythm, with no specific meaning behind them.” However, he notes that many listeners began to search for deeper meaning in the rap, which was not the original purpose.
He emphasizes that not every piece of music or art needs to have a profound meaning. Sometimes, the good vibes and positive energy that come from the music are just as valuable, and they can resonate with listeners in a way that transcends deeper interpretations.
Moving forward, Karki continues to be driven by his love for dance, filmmaking, and creativity. He emphasizes the importance of building one’s own genre and staying true to one’s passion. “Pride and ego are harmful,” he says. “Focus on your craft and dance your own way.”
As he works on upcoming projects, including a new music video that will be released in the next two months, he is not only focused on his own success but also on inspiring the next generation of dancers and creators in Nepal.
What started as a simple desire to improve his dance moves has now blossomed into a successful career in dance and filmmaking, and his story continues to inspire countless individuals who dare to dream big and work hard to make those dreams a reality.
GLI report launched
Plan International Nepal, in collaboration with Plan International Asia Pacific Regional Hub, launched the Girls’ Leadership Index (GLI) Report 2024 on Thursday. The report highlights the progress and challenges faced by girls and young women across the Asia-Pacific region, focusing on education, health, economic opportunities, protection from violence, climate change, political participation, and the legal and policy frameworks shaping their development. The launch event featured global leaders and representatives from Plan International’s national offices. Bhagyashree Dengal, Plan International’s Regional Director for Asia and the Pacific, emphasized the urgency of addressing barriers faced by girls, stating, “As our region faces pressing challenges such as climate change, economic inequality, and political instability, addressing the unique barriers faced by girls is crucial.” Dengal added, “Empowering girls is not only about improving their lives but also about ensuring a prosperous future for communities and nations.”
The Adolescent Leadership Index 2024 provided insights into the barriers and opportunities affecting adolescent girls’ leadership potential. Based on data from 33 countries in the Asia-Pacific region, the report revealed that persistent inequalities hinder girls’ leadership development and highlighted the need to break cycles of gender discrimination and inequality. Singapore, Thailand, and the Philippines are leading the way in transforming education, protection, and legal systems for girls. In contrast, Afghanistan, Pakistan, and Brunei face significant challenges in education, economic opportunities, and climate action, which undermine girls’ empowerment. Similarly, in the Pacific, Australia, New Zealand, and Fiji excel in areas like education and political representation, while Papua New Guinea, Nauru, and the Solomon Islands lag behind in health and leadership representation. Cambodia has shown remarkable progress in health indicators, whereas Brunei has witnessed a significant decline in climate change performance regarding adolescent girls, underscoring the diverse challenges and opportunities within the region.
A panel discussion moderated by Rose Coldwell, Plan UK National Director, featured Ram Kishan, Country Director of Plan International Nepal; Ravi Verma, Executive Director of the International Centre for Research on Women (ICRW) Asia; Basjir Najeeb, Deputy Country Representative of UNFPA Nepal; and Sikha Thapa, a climate youth activist. Saima, a teenager from one of Plan International’s countries of work, urged stakeholders to challenge misconceptions about adolescents, stating, “We need to remove misconceptions that negatively affect us and challenge the idea that adolescents cannot lead or be agents of change. We also need more agencies and partners to support us in achieving equal power, freedom, and representation.”
Plan International emphasized the need to address socio-economic barriers, eliminate harmful cultural practices, and ensure equal access to education, health services, and economic opportunities for girls. However, challenges such as gender-based violence, early marriage, and weak legal frameworks remain critical and require urgent attention. Children’s rights organizations and humanitarian agencies are advocating for increased initiatives to enhance girls' involvement in youth-focused programs and to provide more financial support for their groups and organizations.
Rajani Shrestha didn’t let a crisis determine her fate
Rajani Shrestha, born in 1981 in Jhapa, Nepal, has carved a unique place for herself in the world of bodybuilding. Her journey from a woman with no knowledge of bodybuilding to becoming an inspiration for many is a testament to her resilience, determination, and passion for health and fitness. However, her journey wasn’t an easy one. It was shaped by unexpected challenges, health issues, societal criticism, and a profound love for fitness that transformed her life.
Shrestha was born and raised in Jhapa in eastern Nepal. She lived a normal life, focusing on family, work, and other daily responsibilities. The idea of working out or engaging in any form of physical transformation didn’t cross her mind until much later in life. However, everything changed when she had a health scare at 32.
She developed a series of troubling symptoms, including 25 to 30 knots in her throat, which were later suspected to be signs of cancer. After consulting several doctors in both Nepal and India, the diagnosis didn’t look good. Many doctors feared the worst, and cancer was high on the list of potential diagnoses. It was a terrifying and uncertain time in her life.
Then her husband encouraged her to work out. At first, the idea seemed ludicrous. She was sick, exhausted, and overwhelmed by the uncertainty of her medical condition. But her husband, who has always been her pillar of support, gently persuaded her to go to the gym.
“Even though I was sick and in a bad phase of my life, my husband told me that getting fit physically and working out could help me. He got me enrolled in the gym, and that’s where everything started,” says Shrestha.
Slowly, working out began to have a remarkable effect on her. Not only did she start feeling better physically, but her health also began to improve. After years of consistent exercise and determination, Shrestha’s health improved. The transformation was nothing short of miraculous, both physically and emotionally.
Her newfound passion for fitness didn’t end with recovery. She worked out more and as she saw her body’s structure change, she became interested in the idea of bodybuilding. This was not an easy decision to make, as bodybuilding in Nepal, especially for women, was not widely accepted at the time. She began to explore bodybuilding in 2016, and it quickly became a significant part of her life.
As a female bodybuilder, Shrestha faced intense societal criticism. “When I just started, it was compulsory to wear a two-piece outfit at the gym and for games. My family and relatives were against it,” she says. “But my husband was my biggest supporter. He motivated me and gave me the strength to continue.”
So, she dedicated herself to bodybuilding, working relentlessly to build muscle and strength. “For women, it’s much harder to build muscle mass. People criticize a lot when a woman starts gaining muscle,” she explains. “They say, ‘Is this a girl or a boy?’ or ‘Your body doesn’t suit you. You should be soft and have a small body.’”
But Shrestha understood that people’s criticisms stemmed from a lack of understanding of bodybuilding, especially for women. Over time, she became more confident in her decisions and started pushing back against the norms. “Now, people are more accepting of women in bodybuilding,” she says. “There’s still some criticism, but it’s getting better.”
Her journey was not solitary. Her husband, who had always been her rock, played an instrumental role in her success. He not only supported her emotionally but also went against societal norms to help her pursue her dream. Together, they worked hard to achieve her goals, even opening a shop to sustain their livelihood. They also both went to the gym every day, making fitness a shared experience.
Her family, initially unsupportive, gradually came around. Despite the challenges of managing both her family life and bodybuilding career, she made it a priority to balance her personal life with her commitment to fitness. “I want to make sure I give enough time to my family and not make tournaments my only focus,” she says.
Shrestha follows a simple yet healthy diet to maintain her physique. “I prefer eating home cooked meals and I avoid oily food. We mostly use ghee. I also don’t use a lot of spices. When I’m preparing for a competition, I eat mostly boiled food,” she says.
Supplements are also very important, she says, adding it must be consumed in moderation. “We need to have different multivitamin and fish oil for ligaments and joints. I usually have glutamine because it helps and supports my muscles and prevents my muscles and joints from hurting,” she says.
She competes in the men’s bodybuilding category, where the focus is on building muscle mass and gaining size. “In bodybuilding, some people focus on physique and shape, while others, like me, aim for muscle mass and strength,” she says. “There are also categories like model physique, where the focus is on a smaller body with no muscle mass.”
Her first major international achievement came in 2019, when she won a competition in Indonesia. “I was so happy to stand there and represent Nepal. I can’t explain how I felt. It was like I was fulfilling my purpose,” she says.
However, her journey has not been without sacrifices. In 2013, Shrestha was unable to participate in a competition in South Korea because she didn’t get a visa. It was a bitter disappointment that still lingers with her.
Bodybuilding is an expensive sport, especially in Nepal, where there is limited government support for athletes. She has borne most of the financial burden herself. “It costs a lot, especially when preparing for international competitions. This time, I spent more than Rs 10,00,000 and we had no help from the government,” she says.
Shrestha hopes that in the future, there will be more support for athletes like her. She envisions a time when the government will provide financial assistance to sportspersons. “I hope that in the coming years, we will receive financial support, just like athletes from other countries,” she says.
Throughout her journey, she has learned the value of patience and perseverance. “In bodybuilding, timing is everything. You can’t just start whenever you want. Everything has to be planned and executed with discipline,” she says.
Her advice to others is simple yet powerful, “There is nothing stopping you from pursuing your passion. If I can continue at 44, anyone can.”
Reflecting on her journey, she wishes she had started earlier. “I regret not starting bodybuilding before I had health issues. But at least I’m here now, and I’ve made a difference in my life,” she says. She encourages everyone to dedicate at least an hour to their fitness and well-being every day. “If you take care of your health and fitness, you won’t fall sick,” she says.
Her journey is a powerful reminder that transformation is possible, even in the face of adversity. Through hard work and passion for bodybuilding, she has become not only a symbol of strength but also a role model for many, proving that age, gender, or society’s expectations should never limit one’s potential.
Sheroes: A powerful force in jazz
Sheroes is a jazz band that has not only made its mark in the global music scene but has also reshaped the perception of women in jazz. Formed in 2014, the band’s debut performance in Kathmandu happened at Jazzmandu in October this year. It quickly became known for its electrifying live performances, innovative compositions, and powerful music. The band’s name, ‘Sheroes’, is a declaration of empowerment, inspired by the word ‘heroes’ and the strength of women who have been underrepresented in jazz.
Jazz, an art form known for its improvisation and constant evolution, has traditionally been a male-dominated genre. Sheroes is changing this narrative by celebrating female empowerment through its music, which breaks boundaries and challenges the stereotypes surrounding women in jazz. The band includes Jamie Baum, a flute player, Reut Rege, a trombone player, Monika Herzig, a pianist, Gina Schwarz, on bass, and Rosa Avila as the drummer.
The concept of Sheroes emerged from a desire to create something revolutionary. The band’s founding member Herzig wanted to forge a path that highlighted female talent in a male-centric world. The formation of the band in 2014 was more about taking a stand. The name itself, Sheroes, was chosen to honor the often overlooked contributions of women in the world of jazz, while also acknowledging the challenges they face.
For female musicians, there’s often an inherent challenge that goes beyond the music itself. In a genre where virtuosity and power are highly valued, women are still, at times, expected to prove themselves in ways their male counterparts do not. Sheroes confront this stereotype head-on. With every performance, they deliver an unexpected, powerful sound that defies expectations. Herzig says audiences are often left astonished by the depth and energy of the music, with many commenting, “We weren’t expecting such powerful music from you,” or “If I close my eyes, I wouldn’t even know it’s a female band.” These reactions underscore how Sheroes constantly redefines the limits of what people expect from women in jazz.
Sheroes draws deep inspiration from some of the most innovative and influential women in jazz history. Carla Bley, a revolutionary jazz composer, Geri Allen, a pianist and composer, and Mary Lou William, jazz pianist serve as key influences on the band’s sound. Their work in pushing the boundaries of jazz is a guiding force for Sheroes. Herzig, who is known for blending various styles and traditions into jazz, has also been a significant influence on Sheroes, allowing the band to develop its own distinctive voice.
One of the core philosophies of Sheroes is that jazz is a living, breathing art form—constantly evolving and never fixed. “For the band, each performance is an opportunity to create something new. Jazz, unlike other genres, has no rigid aesthetic. It’s about spontaneity and response,” says Herzig. The musicians involved in Sheroes understand this deeply, using each performance to interact with the audience, the environment, and the energy in the room. Every note is shaped by the moment, creating a unique and unpredictable experience for the audience.
This emphasis on improvisation and fluidity is a hallmark of Sheroes’ performances. Whether they are playing in an intimate venue or a grand concert hall, the band’s music always feels fresh, driven by an energy that is palpable and electric. The connection between the players and the audience creates an atmosphere that makes every concert a shared journey, one that can never be replicated.
Sheroes’ influence is spreading far beyond the stage. Since its formation, the band has been performing across the globe, captivating audiences with their energy and groundbreaking sound. Their tours, which take place twice a year, have introduced Sheroes to international audiences, allowing the band to share their unique blend of jazz with fans worldwide.
The band’s first album, released shortly after their debut performance in 2014, was just the beginning of their journey. Since then, they have released four albums, with their most recent project, ‘All In Good Time’, produced by jazz legend Lenny White, reaching the Top 40 on the US JazzWeek Radio charts.
Sheroes’ success is not just about their music but also about the messages they impart with each performance. Through their groundbreaking work, Sheroes is inspiring the next generation of female musicians to step up and break down the barriers that still exist in the world of jazz.
At the heart of Sheroes is a powerful message of empowerment—If you love music, go for it. This message is one of defiance against fear and limitation, encouraging women to pursue their passion, no matter the obstacles. The band exemplifies the idea that there is always room to break through barriers, create something powerful, and make a lasting impact. They prove that the stage is not limited by gender, and that women are just as capable of shaping the future of jazz as anyone else.
Sheroes isn’t just a band, it’s a movement and a force of nature within the jazz world. By combining electrifying performances with a message of empowerment and breaking through societal expectations, they are shaping the future of jazz and inspiring countless women to take their place on the stage. As they continue to tour and make music, Sheroes will undoubtedly leave an indelible mark on the world of jazz, proving that the power of music, when combined with the strength of women, is unstoppable.
AIDS awareness
HIV/AIDS, a global health crisis, continues to impact millions of lives worldwide. While significant strides have been made in prevention, treatment, and care, the disease remains a pressing issue, particularly in developing countries. In Nepal, a nation grappling with various social and economic challenges, HIV/AIDS poses a significant threat to public health. ApEx spoke to three people to find out what they think needs to be done to tackle this issue.
Shreya Ganeju, 19
By now we all know that AIDS is a sexually transmitted disease. It’s caused by HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) that weakens the immune system. AIDS is the most advanced stage of HIV infection. In a country like Nepal, AIDS is an important topic. Many people are involved in sex trade for their livelihoods. There’s unprotected sex with multiple partners and that has resulted in AIDS becoming quite prevalent. The thing is that AIDS is stigmatized and people hesitate to talk about it. We need more awareness on the importance of safe sex and also access to good healthcare facilities to reduce HIV transmission.
Radha Lama, 29
AIDS is a disease which can be transferred through blood and even breastfeeding. But you don’t get it by shaking hands, sharing food, or hugging someone who has the infection. It can prove to be fatal as your immune system becomes weak due to the infection and it leads to other issues in the body. But I feel there is limited knowledge and awareness about HIV/AIDS and that also results in the spread of the disease. There should be more campaigns and programs to make people understand what it actually is and how it can be prevented.
Sangita Kunwar, 54
AIDS is mainly a sexually transmitted disease and so it should be quite easy to prevent it. But that’s not the case here in Nepal. The death rate is still high and I think that is largely because people are unaware about all the other ways you can get it. You can be infected through infected blood, sharing needles, and breastfeeding as well. So apart from the focus on protected sexual intercourse, people should also be made aware about the other ways in which they need to safeguard themselves.