Rajani Shrestha didn’t let a crisis determine her fate

Rajani Shrestha, born in 1981 in Jhapa, Nepal, has carved a unique place for herself in the world of bodybuilding. Her journey from a woman with no knowledge of bodybuilding to becoming an inspiration for many is a testament to her resilience, determination, and passion for health and fitness. However, her journey wasn’t an easy one. It was shaped by unexpected challenges, health issues, societal criticism, and a profound love for fitness that transformed her life.

Shrestha was born and raised in Jhapa in eastern Nepal. She lived a normal life, focusing on family, work, and other daily responsibilities. The idea of working out or engaging in any form of physical transformation didn’t cross her mind until much later in life. However, everything changed when she had a health scare at 32.

She developed a series of troubling symptoms, including 25 to 30 knots in her throat, which were later suspected to be signs of cancer. After consulting several doctors in both Nepal and India, the diagnosis didn’t look good. Many doctors feared the worst, and cancer was high on the list of potential diagnoses. It was a terrifying and uncertain time in her life.

Then her husband encouraged her to work out. At first, the idea seemed ludicrous. She was sick, exhausted, and overwhelmed by the uncertainty of her medical condition. But her husband, who has always been her pillar of support, gently persuaded her to go to the gym.

“Even though I was sick and in a bad phase of my life, my husband told me that getting fit physically and working out could help me. He got me enrolled in the gym, and that’s where everything started,” says Shrestha.

Slowly, working out began to have a remarkable effect on her. Not only did she start feeling better physically, but her health also began to improve. After years of consistent exercise and determination, Shrestha’s health improved. The transformation was nothing short of miraculous, both physically and emotionally.

Her newfound passion for fitness didn’t end with recovery. She worked out more and as she saw her body’s structure change, she became interested in the idea of bodybuilding. This was not an easy decision to make, as bodybuilding in Nepal, especially for women, was not widely accepted at the time. She began to explore bodybuilding in 2016, and it quickly became a significant part of her life.

As a female bodybuilder, Shrestha faced intense societal criticism. “When I just started, it was compulsory to wear a two-piece outfit at the gym and for games. My family and relatives were against it,” she says. “But my husband was my biggest supporter. He motivated me and gave me the strength to continue.”

So, she dedicated herself to bodybuilding, working relentlessly to build muscle and strength. “For women, it’s much harder to build muscle mass. People criticize a lot when a woman starts gaining muscle,” she explains. “They say, ‘Is this a girl or a boy?’ or ‘Your body doesn’t suit you. You should be soft and have a small body.’”

But Shrestha understood that people’s criticisms stemmed from a lack of understanding of bodybuilding, especially for women. Over time, she became more confident in her decisions and started pushing back against the norms. “Now, people are more accepting of women in bodybuilding,” she says. “There’s still some criticism, but it’s getting better.”

Her journey was not solitary. Her husband, who had always been her rock, played an instrumental role in her success. He not only supported her emotionally but also went against societal norms to help her pursue her dream. Together, they worked hard to achieve her goals, even opening a shop to sustain their livelihood. They also both went to the gym every day, making fitness a shared experience.

Her family, initially unsupportive, gradually came around. Despite the challenges of managing both her family life and bodybuilding career, she made it a priority to balance her personal life with her commitment to fitness. “I want to make sure I give enough time to my family and not make tournaments my only focus,” she says.

Shrestha follows a simple yet healthy diet to maintain her physique. “I prefer eating home cooked meals and I avoid oily food. We mostly use ghee. I also don’t use a lot of spices. When I’m preparing for a competition, I eat mostly boiled food,” she says. 

Supplements are also very important, she says, adding it must be consumed in moderation. “We need to have different multivitamin and fish oil for ligaments and joints. I usually have glutamine because it helps and supports my muscles and prevents my muscles and joints from hurting,” she says.

She competes in the men’s bodybuilding category, where the focus is on building muscle mass and gaining size. “In bodybuilding, some people focus on physique and shape, while others, like me, aim for muscle mass and strength,” she says. “There are also categories like model physique, where the focus is on a smaller body with no muscle mass.”

Her first major international achievement came in 2019, when she won a competition in Indonesia. “I was so happy to stand there and represent Nepal. I can’t explain how I felt. It was like I was fulfilling my purpose,” she says.

However, her journey has not been without sacrifices. In 2013, Shrestha was unable to participate in a competition in South Korea because she didn’t get a visa. It was a bitter disappointment that still lingers with her.

Bodybuilding is an expensive sport, especially in Nepal, where there is limited government support for athletes. She has borne most of the financial burden herself. “It costs a lot, especially when preparing for international competitions. This time, I spent more than Rs 10,00,000  and we had no help from the government,” she says.

Shrestha hopes that in the future, there will be more support for athletes like her. She envisions a time when the government will provide financial assistance to sportspersons. “I hope that in the coming years, we will receive financial support, just like athletes from other countries,” she says.

Throughout her journey, she has learned the value of patience and perseverance. “In bodybuilding, timing is everything. You can’t just start whenever you want. Everything has to be planned and executed with discipline,” she says.

Her advice to others is simple yet powerful, “There is nothing stopping you from pursuing your passion. If I can continue at 44, anyone can.”

Reflecting on her journey, she wishes she had started earlier. “I regret not starting bodybuilding before I had health issues. But at least I’m here now, and I’ve made a difference in my life,” she says. She encourages everyone to dedicate at least an hour to their fitness and well-being every day. “If you take care of your health and fitness, you won’t fall sick,” she says.

Her journey is a powerful reminder that transformation is possible, even in the face of adversity. Through hard work and passion for bodybuilding, she has become not only a symbol of strength but also a role model for many, proving that age, gender, or society’s expectations should never limit one’s potential.