Life is a book of lessons, and everyone experiences turning points in their lives. These moments are pivotal, marking significant shifts in our directions, perspectives, or personal growth. Whether it’s a major life event, a decision, or a realization, turning points have the power to change our paths and redefine who we are. Rastrika Shakya from ApEx talked to three people to find out about the moments that altered the course of their lives for the better.

Riya Rajkarnikar, 30

A breakup was the turning point of my life. I always wished for a happy love life. The initial days of our six-year relationship were full of love and joy but gradually, he became controlling and possessive. I was blind in love and that made me think everything he made me do was right. But his toxic behavior was depressing. It also isolated me from family and friends. Eventually, I found the courage to confide in my mom and sister, who supported me through the breakup despite his resistance. Free from the toxicity, I embraced opportunities for personal growth and career advancement. I’m much stronger and independent today than I was when I was with him.

Today I’m married and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. My husband has restored my faith in men, showing me what true love and acceptance look like. I’m thankful for his unconditional love and unwavering support. Through him, I’ve learned to embrace myself fully and believe in my worth.

Akriti Thapa, 22

Reflecting on my past, I’d say a pivotal moment was when I grew tired of depending on others for transportation. I also wasn’t comfortable traveling in public vehicles. This prompted me to embark on a journey of self-sufficiency. I decided to learn to ride a scooter. Through sheer determination, I acquired the necessary skills and obtained my license. This newfound independence liberated me, granting me the freedom to travel at will. No longer reliant on friends or family, I navigated the world with confidence. Riding the scooter wasn’t just about transportation. It symbolized empowerment and resilience, preparing me for a long journey ahead. Not being dependent on anyone felt good. It made me able to take charge of my days in the way I liked.

Lumanti Shakya, 24

One moment that truly stands out as a turning point in my life was when someone encouraged me to prioritize my well-being first, assuring me that by doing so, I would be better equipped to help others. I realized that I needed to invest in myself to truly make a positive impact in the lives of those around me. From that moment on, I shifted my focus towards self-improvement, dedicating time and energy to personal growth and development. This decision sparked a transformative journey that has not only enriched my life but has also allowed me to be more effective in supporting and uplifting others. One crucial aspect of this realization was understanding the importance of self-care and recognizing that taking breaks and prioritizing ‘me time’ is not selfish, but essential for overall well-being. By embracing self-care practices and allowing myself moments of rest and rejuvenation, I’ve been able to deal with life’s challenges with resilience and clarity.