Mind Matters | Struggling with OCD

I’m a 27-year-old woman who has been struggling with OCD for years and it has taken a toll on my mental health. My compulsions can range from rechecking things to repeating certain actions. That has made it difficult for me to maintain good relationships with people or excel at my job. I often feel like I’m trapped in my own mind and unable to control my thoughts and behaviors. Please help me!–S.S Answered by Tashi Gurung, counseling psychologist, Happy Minds I’m sorry to hear that you’ve been struggling with OCD. It’s understandable that it’s difficult for you to cope with it. OCD is a mental health condition that can cause unwanted, obsessive thoughts and repetitive, compulsive behaviors. These behaviors can interfere with your daily life and can be distressing. Understand that OCD isn’t a personal weakness or a choice. Know that it’s a treatable condition and, with the right support, you can learn to manage your symptoms and improve your quality of life.

There are different types of OCD, and your compulsions may vary from checking things repeatedly, counting, or repeating certain actions. It’s essential to understand that these behaviors aren’t under your control, and they are not a reflection of your personality. It doesn’t define who you are as a person. It's necessary to approach OCD with compassion and understanding, both for yourself as well as for others who might be struggling with the condition.

Open communication with your partner or loved ones can be helpful for them to understand what you are going through and how they can support you. It might also be beneficial to educate them about OCD and how it affects you. If OCD is affecting your job, talk to your employer or HR representative about your condition and how it’s impacting your work. You might be able to request accommodations or adjustments to your work environment or schedule to help manage your symptoms. If you have OCD, it’s crucial to seek professional help. A mental health professional can help you develop coping strategies and manage your symptoms. They may recommend therapy, medication, or a combination of both. In addition to seeking professional help, there are things you can do to manage OCD symptoms. Practice self-care, get enough sleep, eat a healthy diet, and engage in regular physical activity. Relaxation techniques such as meditation or deep breathing exercises might also be helpful. Remember that managing OCD is a journey, and there might be setbacks along the way. It’s okay to ask for help and support from loved ones. It’s also important to be patient and compassionate with yourself as you work towards managing your symptoms. With proper treatment and support, you can overcome OCD and lead a good life.