Query

I am a 16-year-old student and just completed my high school. I am good at my academics and I have many options available to pursue further studies. I am struggling to make my mind up as to which subject to pick. I am afraid I will make a wrong decision and end up regretting the subject of choice. Any suggestions? - A worried student

Answered by Kapil Sharma, Counseling Psychologist, Hudec Nepal

In this transitional phase, it is only natural that you are struggling to choose the right subjects and career path. The good thing is you are careful about not making a wrong choice and ready to explore the right future.  Remember, it is okay to feel confused and anxious right now. But here are some things you can consider when you feel this way. First, let us explore where you stand in terms of your further studies and future career. Self-assessment, career exploration and identification, and an action plan are important at this stage. Sometimes, people jump to a conclusion and dive headlong into studies and career without considering the basic requirements and their strengths. I advise you to weigh your strengths and weaknesses before you make your choice.

Self-assessment is the first step. This includes an assessment of your subjects of interest, skill-sets and personal qualities. When you have completed this process, you can explore the kind of career and working environment you would like for yourself. Do your research and collect as much information as you can about your subject matter and career interest. What are the financial requirements? What are the learning opportunities? What will be the nature of your job? And so on. 

Finding answers to these questions will allow you to make an informed decision. If you do not know where to begin, you can reach out to experts in the fields you are interested in and ask for their guidance. Find someone who has completed the course you are interested in or someone in the line of work of your interest. Their insight and experience can prove valuable in your decision-making.   If you still find yourself struggling with this process, there are professionals who can help you with career assessment and career counseling. They can help you narrow down your study and career interests.